Home

Words, Words, Words

A Post To Toast

I started a Homonyms spreadsheet last year to help my Adult Literacy League students learn how the spelling of a word can impact its meaning while not impacting its sound. A shout-out to Claudia who is helping me organize the spreadsheet. She is also converting the data into a Word document so she can add pictures for our more visual learning style students (brilliant idea, Claudia – thank you :). By the way, if any of you would like to help think of common homonyms, let me know – I’ll add you to the Google sheets user list.

While working on the Homonyms sheet, I started another sheet – where the same word (same spelling, same pronunciation) has a different meaning depending on whether it is used as a noun or a verb or an adjective. The nouns versus verbs are of particular interest to me. For example, “bark.” As a noun, it’s the outside of many trees. As a verb, it’s the sound that a dog might make. Who in the world decided to use the same word to mean, in my opinion, two unrelated ideas?!

I have the same opinion for list (noun – a combination of items / verb – to tilt in a particular direction, as my sailboat is listing to starboard) and loaf (noun – a loaf of bread / verb – to goof off) – how are these words related??Why did someone decide to use the same word for these disparate meanings?? Can anyone tell me? 😕

Two of my favorites, though, are in todays’ title – post and toast. It wasn’t that long ago that post, as a verb, was used to describe the act of sending a letter (to “post” a letter). Nowadays, we “mail” a letter, but we still go to the post office and use the United States Postal Service. Post, as a noun, however, is . . . a thick stick? Placed upright, often as a support for something? Does this have anything to do with mailing a letter? And, how about this? Post, as a verb, is also used to describe a horse rider’s sitting and rising from the saddle.

Finally, let’s look at toast. A common noun use is to describe bread that has been cooked until it becomes crispy. In the past couple of weeks, I’m guessing many of you used this word as a verb – to cheer someone or many people. While pondering this apparent lack of a relationship between the noun and verb meanings, I came to realize that the action of toasting was an amazing creation! Toasting has been around for centuries, but it’s nice to know that this activity is still enjoyed by so many humans throughout the world. I am encouraged that humans still enjoy celebrating others, not just themselves.

On that positive and heartwarming note, I send you all best wishes for 2021! 😍

Cheers, Salud, Slainte, Skal, and more! 🍾

From The Blog

When a Third-Party is involved in a Real Estate Purchase, Caution is Needed for Purchasers and Closers

July 7, 2026
Posted in

According to an article in the Wall Street Journal, the number of parents who are contributing in some way to their children’s purchase of a…

HR “Speak” – Part Two

June 9, 2026
Posted in

In my October, 2025, blog post (“HR” Speak – BB’s Words), my HR expert friend, Maggie Peters, gave me some language that HR people use…

Animal Groups

May 5, 2026
Posted in

In honor of National Pet Month (May), here are words for groups of animals (in case you want to adopt several animals 🤗🥰.) Did you…

Books from Barbara P. Burke

Mr. Smiles® Stories

(Also available in Spanish)

Title World Tales™

More Great Books

Persuasive Communication™ Training

Do you have a lot of thoughts but can’t seem to put them together? As the “Thought Connector,” Dr. Burke will help you organize your thoughts to best convey your message to your customers or clients.

Upcoming Events

My 10 "Real Estate Complications" videos are almost ready! And, guess where you will be able to find them? On my new YouTube channel, called "Barbara Explains." Coming soon!

It's a great series of insightful videos for all real estate professionals - paralegals, real estate agents/brokers, title insurance agents/insurers, county recorders - plus new home buyers!

   P.S. I'm still looking for a literary agent to help with publishing my "Mr. Smiles"® children's books, in case you know of anyone who could assist.

In the meantime, I am still working on the "Title World Tales." Future topics include water rights and NEIGHBORS! 😄 Good neighbors make boundary disputes disappear. Bad neighbors?? Stay tuned!

👉 I also added a "Fraud Factors" presentation that includes all types of frauds, not just real estate fraud. If you want me to speak for your group about Fraud, please let me know! It's SO important for people to understand the clues to detect fraud and to understand that they are not the only ones to fall for these scams.

AND, I'll be speaking at the FLTA convention November 9-11 in Bonita Springs!

"Ethical Communications - Steering Your Instructions Through the Clouds" - examples of when instructions are misunderstood.

I look forward to seeing you there!

Testimonials

I read the Mr. Smiles books and really liked them! I definitely feel like some of them can help autistic children such as book #1 which focuses on making sense of emotions and how to regulate them, book #3 which talks about social cues, and book #4 which navigates social situations related to bullying (very common thing that autistic kids face).

Jordan Brooks
Autistic Children Counselor

I had a chance to read them, and I loved the life lessons in them. I thought that the intergenerational friendship was very sweet, and that it is important to have a book that teaches children how to deal with feelings and difficult situations. I do think that they will be helpful. I think that I will try to give them as sets to teachers for social/emotional modules, or to give to kids who are going through grief, bullying, etc. Thank you for writing these!

Sally McArthur
Founder and Co-Director, Facilitating Learning for Youth, Inc.

I received it and love it. [in response to ordering “Dead People Should Not Sign Deeds”]

Sabine Seidel
Underwriting Counsel for Westcor Land Title Insurance Company

The Title World Tales series is SO well-written, informative, and easy to digest!  The resources are fantastic!

Cindi Dixon
Real Estate Investor